Life-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.
BELL HOOKSIf we give our children sound self-love, they will be able to deal with whatever life puts before them.
More Bell Hooks Quotes
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To be truly visionary we have to root our imagination in our concrete reality while simultaneously imagining possibilities beyond that reality.
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Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
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It’s in the act of having to do things that you don’t want to that you learn something about moving past the self. Past the ego.
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Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified.
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When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.
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I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.
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Once you do away with the idea of people as fixed, static entities, then you see that people can change, and there is hope.
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.
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No black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
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The people I love, I’m committed to loving for the rest of my life.
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I think Black people need to take self-esteem seriously.
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Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
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Justice demands integrity. It’s to have a moral universe – not only know what is right or wrong but to put things in perspective, weigh things. Justice is different from violence and retribution; it requires complex accounting.
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I will not have my life narrowed down. I will not bow down to somebody else’s whim or to someone else’s ignorance.
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My idea of a delicious time is to read a book that is wonderful. But the ruling passion of my life is being a seeker after truth and the divine.
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