Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
SYDNEY J. HARRISEnemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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This is a lesson mankind has not yet learned. We identify, and stratify, and treat persons largely on the basis of their accidental (physical) characteristics, which have no deeper meaning.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Never let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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