The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
JOHN IRVINGLife is an X-rated soap opera.
More John Irving Quotes
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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YOU LET ME DROWN!” Owen said. “YOU DIDN’T DO ANYTHING! YOU JUST WATCHED ME DROWN! I’M ALREADY DEAD!” he told us. “REMEMBER THAT: YOU LET ME DIE.
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I never know when I finish the novel I am writing which will be the next novel out of the station.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
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I write very quickly; I rewrite very slowly. It takes me nearly as long to rewrite a book as it does to get the first draft.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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If you asked me one day, I might say, “Well, sometimes I feel a little bit religious.” If you asked me another day, I’d just say flat out, “No.”
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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In this world,” Franny once observed, “just as you’re trying to think of yourself as memorable, there is always someone who forgets that that they have met you.
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I’m not afraid, but I’m very nervous.
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