People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
SYDNEY J. HARRISThose who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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Agnosticism is a perfectly respectable and tenable philosophical position; it is not dogmatic and makes no pronouncements about the ultimate truths of the universe. It remains open to evidence and persuasion; lacking faith, it nevertheless does not deride faith.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
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The art of living consists in knowing which impulses to obey and which must be made to obey.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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