Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
SYDNEY J. HARRISMore trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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The founder of every creed from Jesus Christ to Karl Marx, would be appalled to return to earth and see what has been made of that creed, not by its enemies, but by its most devoted adherents.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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Life is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
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