Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
JOHN IRVINGIt’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
More John Irving Quotes
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It happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
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Nothing bears out in practice what it promises incipiently.
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So, I don’t work in terms of real time. I don’t work in a timely fashion.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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He was too young to know that, in any novel with a reasonable amount of forethought, there were no coincidences.
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Maybe television causes cancer, Garp thinks; but his real irritation is a writer’s irritation: he knows that wherever the TV glows, there sits someone who isn’t reading.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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How we love to love things for other people; how we love to have other people love things through our eyes.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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In an episodic treatment, such as a teleplay is, you have the ability to do what you can do in a novel, which is flash back and flash forward in the same instant, in the same scene, in the same voice.
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