Bernie Siegel on indifference
Bernie Siegel143 quotes“Often people become an addict and self destructive. Now the opposite of love is indifference and even worse is rejection and abuse, and I meet those people.”
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I see people who die a few minutes after a doctor tells them there is no hope of a cure. They give up and go. Others get angry and find joy in proving the doctor wrong. Something within them is challenged and hopeful. Hope is the divine motivator.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel It’s hard to carry a child around with you, but fortunately, in most cases, you don’t have to ask a child for directions if you have a well-chosen role model ready to guide you. This is the next prescription:
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel I’m sure as an infant, no matter what I looked like, I felt like the most loved kid getting those massages. So I really think that was a big part of my growing and my brain developing.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel When you love the unlovable and forgive the unforgivable, you’re free.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel You too are a work of art.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel You’ll see that love improves your vision and allows you to see more than your eye has ever seen before. But be forewarned:
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel What a shame to be so afraid of failure that you stop living. My wife has a great one-liner about failure: “Never consider yourself a failure-you can always serve as a bad example.” She is right. Failure can be a better teacher than success.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel If you see what you do each day as your way of loving the world and helping it heal, then life gets to be a lot different. The difference between burning up and burning out is the difference between loving what you are doing and not loving it.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel Not because I’m fascinated by the human body or want to understand death, but I like people and I want to help them. That also became my problem, because I couldn’t help everyone, I couldn’t fix everyone.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel I grew up with sentiments such as, “Do what will make you happy, troubles are God’s redirections that something good will come from.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel If I told patients to raise their blood levels of immune globulins or killer T cells, no one would know how. But if I can teach them to love themselves and others fully, the same changes happen automatically. The truth is: love heals.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel You can find examples of how little we value ourselves everywhere you look. The signs on the front of the convenience stores where Stephen lives in Florida tell the story. Beer, ice, bread and milk are the big come-ons.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel How will you know whether you are letting life teach you and nourish you? If your physical senses become more sensitive to the beauty you see.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel God is in everyone and everything. When we save each other or guide each other or just love each other.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel Do not be afraid to love. Remember dear old Don Quixote, viewing the world with love. He saw many beautiful things no one else saw. Try being dear Don Quixote for a day.
Bernie SiegelBernie Siegel Life is an opportunity to contribute love in your own way.
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Thoughts on a tapestry. Colour or black and white. A brush, a pen, A flash of light. Ideas flowing soon, about to take flight.
Gerard GleesonGerard Gleeson Like deep water, she was silent. His lips tasted of salt. He was both addicting and bitter all at once.
MoomerMoomer Always show kindness and love to others. Your words might be filling the empty places in someone else heart.
Alexander KandovAlexander Kandov And I would lie on your chest for hours and dream about the world in your arms but your thoughts were in another world.
Ani ShahverdyanAni Shahverdyan Your smile and your laughter lit my whole world.
Ranata SuzukiRanata Suzuki Often all we can do is breathe, even that can be hard sometimes.
Julia Kellogg HenryJulia Kellogg Henry I am addicted to your madness drunk on your toxic love. Infect me with your poison, lets make storms rage above.
Laura Natoli-KearneyLaura Natoli-Kearney The more you fail, recover, and improve, the better you are as a person.
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The context of what can be known establishes that love and indifference are forms of language, but the wise addition of punctuation allows us to believe that there are other harms – the dash gives the reader the clear signal they are coming.
Ben MarcusBen Marcus Oh, it is dreadfully bitter to look at a woman whom you have loved with all your heart and soul, so that you felt you could not bear to let her out of your sight, and realize that you would not mind if you never saw her again. The tragedy of love is indifference.
W. Somerset MaughamW. Somerset Maugham Forgiveness is too easy. I can forget by indifference, but not forgive. I prefer revenge.
Karl LagerfeldKarl Lagerfeld Tolerance is only another name for indifference.
W. Somerset MaughamW. Somerset Maugham A human feast is an indifferent morsel to a god.
Wole SoyinkaWole Soyinka We have held that a death toll was a necessary part of every human achievement, whether sport, war or industry. A moment’s rage over the horror of it, and we have sunk into indifference.
Ida TarbellIda Tarbell Suddenly, the child becomes very sensitive to the rudeness and humiliations which he had previously suffered with patient indifference.
Maria MontessoriMaria Montessori A contemptuous indifference turns into an enemy a woman who, well treated, might have been an angel.
Andre MauroisAndre Maurois
