Once I gave up the hunt for villains, I had little recourse but to take responsibility for my choices…. Needless to say, this is far less satisfying that nailing villains. It also turned out to be more healing in the end.
BARBARA BROWN TAYLOR
BARBARA BROWN TAYLOR
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Barbara Brown Taylor78 quotes“Once I gave up the hunt for villains, I had little recourse but to take responsibility for my choices…. Needless to say, this is far less satisfying that nailing villains. It also turned out to be more healing in the end.”
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I decided I got to say whether I was Christian or not, and so I’ve relaxed enormously since then. I’m the one who gets to say that, and not someone else.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor The abundance of our lives is not determined by how long we live, but how well we live. Christ makes abundant life possible if we choose to live it now.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor Prayer is happening, and it is not necessarily something that I am doing. God is happening, and I am lucky enough to know that I am in The Midst.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor I live by the simplest, perhaps facile command that Jesus ever gave, which is to love God with the whole self and the neighbor as the self, and I find that’s entirely consuming. To do those two things leaves me very little time to do much else.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor When I say I trust Jesus, that is what I mean: I trust that the way of life leads through perishability, not around it.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor We’re children of God through our blood kinship with Christ. We’re also sons and daughters of Adam and Eve, with a hereditary craving for forbidden fruit salad.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor You can create an intimate community of about 20 or 25 people, and beyond that you’re into a different kind of relationship.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor The problem is, many of the people in need of saving are in churches, and at least part of what they need saving from is the idea that God sees the world the same way they do.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor God does some of God’s best work with people who are seriously lost.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor Humanity can be pretty stinky.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor It does seem to me that at least some of us have made an idol of exhaustion. The only time we know we have done enough is when we are running on empty and when the ones we love most are the ones we see the least.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor Day by day we are given not what we want but what we need. Sometimes it is a feast and sometimes…swept crumbs, but by faith we believe it is enough.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor I didn’t want to be a priest. I wanted to do the work that priests do, and that required becoming a priest.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor I read more widely. I made friends more widely. I wore more red. I stayed home on Sundays. I did things that were never in the realm of possible things to do before. That was a real desert experience for me.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor I began to get notes from people saying they were sorry to hear I’d left ministry. And for a while, I halfway believed they were right, that I’d left.
Barbara Brown TaylorBarbara Brown Taylor I’m leaving out some of the hugely successful megachurches, of which I have very little experience.
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Ben VereenBen Vereen In other words, the market is not a weighing machine, on which the value of each issue is recorded by an exact and impersonal mechanism, in accordance with its specific qualities.
Benjamin GrahamBenjamin Graham The reason I make art is because I get to make a choice about who I am, what I do, and what I put out into the world, the footsteps I leave behind.
Ben SolleeBen Sollee I feel, having the choices I had, I felt I had more control over my own medium than I did over photography.
Ben ShahnBen Shahn We don’t need to set this up as we either take a bunch of refugees who will be infiltrated with terrorists, I guarantee you. For them not to be would be terrorist malpractice. And we need to – to choose the right choice, not these false choices.
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