To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
BARBARA DEMINGTo resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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We cannot live without our lives
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