The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
ROLLO MAY
ROLLO MAY
Rollo May on conformity
Rollo May103 quotes“The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.”
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Rollo MayRollo May This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
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Rollo MayRollo May A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
Rollo MayRollo May Mass communication–wonder as it may be technologically and something to be appreciated and valued–presents us wit a serious daner, the danger of conformism, due to the fact that we all view the same things at the same time in all the cities of the country. (p. 73)
Rollo MayRollo May When you are completely absorbed or caught up in something, you become oblivious to things around you, or to the passage of time. It is this absorption in what you are doing that frees your unconscious and releases your creative imagination.
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