Irvin D. Yalom on community
Irvin D. Yalom108 quotes“You will search the world over and not find a nonsuperstitious community. As long as there is ignorance, there will be adherence to superstition. Dispelling ignorance is the only solution. That is why I teach.”
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom We project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom It’s not easy to live every moment wholly aware of death. It’s like trying to stare the sun in the face: you can stand only so much of it. Because we cannot live frozen in fear, we generate methods to soften death’s terror.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom
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