There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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