Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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