There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEndeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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