Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMy writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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