The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPhilosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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