Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPhilosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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