Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPhilosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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