It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONCynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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