The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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