She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
AIMEE BENDERThat’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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