I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
AIMEE BENDERI didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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