I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
AIMEE BENDERA Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.” – Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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