I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
AIMEE BENDERBut I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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