She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
AIMEE BENDERI like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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