As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
AIMEE BENDERI like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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