Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.
HENRY CLOUDIf you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
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Whatever’s happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don’t treat it like it’s the whole story. Keep writing the story.
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Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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A leader’s responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.
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Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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Being right can never compete with doing well.
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The physicality of a real relationship – one that encompasses mind, body and soul – ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual relationship ever could be.
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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