Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.
HENRY CLOUDIf you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.
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Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
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Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.
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The physicality of a real relationship – one that encompasses mind, body and soul – ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual relationship ever could be.
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A leader’s responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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Dating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
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