If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
HENRY CLOUDSpouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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It is true that you get what you tolerate.
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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A leader’s responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.
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To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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Just as we leave the effects of our work behind in results, we leave the effects of our interactions with people in their hearts, minds, and souls.
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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He is the Truth, and He wants us to deal in truth with ourselves and our loved ones. We want the truth about you and your family to flood into and overrun the secrets that keep you in bondage to dysfunctional behavior and relationships.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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Encourage literally came from “in courage.” The courage is put “into” you from outside. Our character and abilities grow through internalizing from others what we do not possess in ourselves.
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