The mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives.
BYRON KATIE
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Byron Katie196 quotes“The mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives.”
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It’s not what happens in life that bothers us. It’s what we’re believing about it that bothers us.
Byron KatieByron Katie That’s what every uncomfortable feeling is for-that’s what pain is for, what money is for, what everything in the world is for: your self-realization.
Byron KatieByron Katie The only difference between heaven and hell is believing a thought.
Byron KatieByron Katie You move totally away from reality when you believe that there is a legitimate reason to suffer”.
Byron KatieByron Katie So there’s only transcendence in the moment. Nobody can be transcended forever. That’s why I say, “Who cares if you’re enlightened forever?”
Byron KatieByron Katie Life just happens. It’s what you’re believing about life that makes you suffer.
Byron KatieByron Katie That’s the purpose of stress. It’s a friend. It’s an alarm clock, built in to let you know that it’s time to do The Work.
Byron KatieByron Katie The only way I can be angry at you is when I have thought, said, or done something that is unkind in my own opinion.
Byron KatieByron Katie When you say or do anything to please, get, keep, influence, or control anyone or anything, fear is the cause and pain is the result.
Byron KatieByron Katie When we’re not defending and justifying, and we’re being very still, our answers can and do shock us.
Byron KatieByron Katie Any thought of discomfort or stress is an alarm that lets you know you’re believing an untrue thought.
Byron KatieByron Katie It’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we seek what we already have.
Byron KatieByron Katie Nothing outside you can ever give you what you’re looking for.
Byron KatieByron Katie Who would you be without the thought that happiness depends on someone else?
Byron KatieByron Katie After you’ve been doing inquiry for a while, if you have the thought “She doesn’t love me,” you just get the immediate turnaround with a smile: “Oh, I’m not loving myself in this moment.”
Byron KatieByron Katie My experience is that the teachers we need most are the people we’re living with right now.
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