You’re never given more pain than you can handle. You never, ever get more than you can take.
BYRON KATIEYou’re never given more pain than you can handle. You never, ever get more than you can take.
BYRON KATIEI can’t love you as you have been or will be. I can only love you as you are.
BYRON KATIEThe only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with what is. When the mind is perfectly clear, what is is what we want.
BYRON KATIEYou might believe that it’s only for their own good, but how does it feel when you try to manipulate the people you love? Are you teaching them that your love is conditional? Maybe through inquiry we can find another way.
BYRON KATIELife is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don’t have to like it. It’s just easier if you do.
BYRON KATIEIt’s not what happens in life that bothers us. It’s what we’re believing about it that bothers us.
BYRON KATIEThere’s no nightmare you can’t wake yourself up from.
BYRON KATIEYou don’t experience anxiety unless you’re attached to a thought that isn’t true for you. It’s that simple.
BYRON KATIEAfter you’ve been doing inquiry for a while, if you have the thought “She doesn’t love me,” you just get the immediate turnaround with a smile: “Oh, I’m not loving myself in this moment.”
BYRON KATIEIt’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we seek what we already have.
BYRON KATIEWhen you think that someone or something other than yourself needs to change, you’re mentally out of your business.
BYRON KATIEIt doesn´t come later. Everything you´re supposed to do is here right now.
BYRON KATIEThe mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives.
BYRON KATIEFear has only two causes: the thought of losing what you have or the thought of not getting what you want.
BYRON KATIEIf you don’t like your world, question your thoughts about it.
BYRON KATIEWhen we love what is, it becomes so simple to live in the world. The world is exactly as it should be.
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