“It is sheer good fortune to miss somebody long before they leave you.”

The peace I am thinking of is the dance of an open mind when it engages another equally open one.

There’s a difference between writing for a living and writing for life. If you write for a living, you make enormous compromises. If you write for life, you’ll work hard; you’ll do what’s honest, not what pays.

Books are a form of political action. Books are knowledge. Books are reflection. Books change your mind.

For me the history of the place of black people in this country is so varied, complex and beautiful. And impactful.

For me the history of the place of black people in this country is so varied, complex and beautiful. And impactful.

Love is or it ain’t. Thin love ain’t love at all.

Don’t beg anybody for anything, especially love.

And I am all the things I have ever loved: scuppernong wine, cool baptisms in silent water, dream books and number playing.

I want to discourage you from choosing anything or making any decision simply because it is safe. Things of value seldom are.

All paradises, all utopias are designed by who is not there, by the people who are not allowed in.

Black women have always been friends. I mean, if you didn’t have each other you had nothing.

The pieces I am, she gather them and gave them back to me in all the right order.

When a child walks in the room, your child or anybody else’s child, do your eyes light up? That’s what they’re looking for.

Make a difference about something other than yourselves.

The enemy is not men. The enemy is the concept of patriarchy, the concept of patriarchy as the way to run the world or do things.

Racism will disappear when it’s no longer profitable, and no longer psychologically useful. And when that happens, it’ll be gone. But at the moment, people make a lot of money off of it, pro and con.

If my broken pieces could make you whole, than at least my breaking would be worth it.

I build a world inside you I shattered when you left and took it with you.

In a final Act of self preservation, I cut you out of my life.

Truth- I am broken. Dare- Love me anyway.

Maybe the universe breaks people in different ways so they fit when they are together.

The embers of us no longer keep me warm. But they still set fire to everything they touch.

Being married means I can break wind and eat ice cream in bed.

Some days, all of it aches with beauty.  Others, it all just aches with you.