If you feel loved, you can do a thousand things. If you feel rejected, everything becomes a problem.
HENRI NOUWENThe church is not an institution forcing us to follow rules but a community inviting us to still our hunger and thirst at its table.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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We cannot make it rain but we can see to it that the rain falls on prepared soil.
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The greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity or power, but self-rejection.
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Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
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We need to be angels for each other, to give each other strength and consolation. Because only when we fully realize that the cup of life is not only a cup of sorrow but also a cup of joy will we be able to drink it.
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Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the Beloved.
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Solitude is the furnace of transformation. Without solitude we remain victims of our society and continue to be entangled in the illusions of the false self.
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You don’t think your way into a new kind of living. You live your way into a new kind of thinking.
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Prayer is not what is done by us, but rather what is done by the Holy Spirit in us.
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The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing that is a friend who cares.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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The main question is not, how can we hide our wounds but how can we put our woundedness in service to others.
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Without solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life. We do not take the spiritual life seriously if we do not set aside some time to be with God and listen to him.
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Keep a space where God can let something totally new take place.
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Pay attention to the people God puts in your path if you want to discern what God is up to in your life.
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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