An obvious fact about negative feelings is often overlooked. They are caused by us, not by exterior happenings. An outside event presents the challenge, but we react to it. So we must attend to the way we take things, not to the things themselves.
VERNON HOWARDDon’t try to be spiritual. That is only a word in the dictionary. Make it your goal to become a normally functioning individual. Let these principles shape you according to your real nature of a simple, decent, honest, unafraid human being.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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Don’t try to live. Let yourself be lived.
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Your central self is totally untouched by grief, confusion, desperation.
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A cheery relaxation is man’s natural state, just as nature itself is relaxed. A waterfall is concerned only with being itself, not with doing something it considers waterfall-like.
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If you call one thing good, you must call its opposite bad. If you think it wonderful to make a big profit in your business, you will also think it terrible if you incur a large loss. The idea is to live above the opposites.
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There exists a special self which takes every event as if it were the very thing you wanted to happen. That self is the Supermind, which is never upset by anything. Your goal is to nourish it into greater strength. Then, every step is sunlit.
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All we have to do is to receive what we are given…We are given the naturalness to love someone, to be calm in crisis, to ignore self-defeating suggestions, to be pleasant, forgiving, tender, helpful, unworried, brave, energetic.
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The most marvelous experience of life is to transform life according to reality, not imagination.
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No one can tell you what is right for you except yourself. So start telling yourself what to do. If you blunder for ten years while thinking for yourself, that is rich treasure when compared with living these ten years under the mental domination of another.
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Resistance to the disturbance is the disturbance.
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Beauty is only skin deep, but it’s a valuable asset if you’re poor or haven’t any sense.
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When you are genuinely strong, you neither attack nor defend and so retain your energy.
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When the mind is exhausted in trying to find the answer, the answer dawns.
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Inner liberty can be judged by how often a person feels offended, for you can no more insult a mature man than you can paint the air.
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The leap is made by dropping vanity over knowledge and by a willingness to become nothing in order to become everything.
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Inner guidance is heard like soft music in the night by those who have learned to listen.
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