Whenever encountering a troublesome person, do not identify him as being cruel or stupid or rude or anything else like that. Instead, see him as a frightened person.
VERNON HOWARDDon’t try to be spiritual. That is only a word in the dictionary. Make it your goal to become a normally functioning individual. Let these principles shape you according to your real nature of a simple, decent, honest, unafraid human being.
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Don’t look for someone in whom to believe. Believe in yourself. The only authentic authority is your own original nature.
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A cheery relaxation is man’s natural state, just as nature itself is relaxed. A waterfall is concerned only with being itself, not with doing something it considers waterfall-like.
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An obvious fact about negative feelings is often overlooked. They are caused by us, not by exterior happenings. An outside event presents the challenge, but we react to it. So we must attend to the way we take things, not to the things themselves.
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You have it made when you don’t care whether you have it made or not.
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All forms of self-defeating behavior are unseen and unconscious, which is why their existence is denied.
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It is a mistake for anyone to think he has lived too long in his old, unsatisfactory ways to make the great change. If you switch on the light in a dark room, it makes no difference how long it was dark because the light will still shine. Be teachable. That is the whole secret.
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We clearly realize that freedom’s inner kingdom cannot be touched by exterior attacks.
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To change what you get you must change who you are.
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Beauty is only skin deep, but it’s a valuable asset if you’re poor or haven’t any sense.
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Just as surely as distress must follow self-deceit, healing must follow self-honesty.
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Examine every action and reaction. Do you act naturally or do you act because you feel compelled? If you feel compelled, stop. Compulsion is slavery. Example: Refuse to go along with the crowd.
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Anger or bitterness toward those who have hurt you will block your path to higher ground. You can have anger toward people or you can have freedom from people, but you can’t have both.
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A clear understanding of negative emotions dismisses them.
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Freedom begins as we become conscious of it.
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The answers come when you are quietly willing to be without them.
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