Bitterness is the outcome of a wrong mental movement – the attempt to force external events to conform to internal fantasy. The cure is to see fantasy as fantasy, which will reveal it as neither necessary nor rewarding.
VERNON HOWARDA truly strong person does not need the approval of others any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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It is a mistake for anyone to think he has lived too long in his old, unsatisfactory ways to make the great change. If you switch on the light in a dark room, it makes no difference how long it was dark because the light will still shine. Be teachable. That is the whole secret.
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To change what you get you must change who you are.
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Freedom begins as we become conscious of it.
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Our life-transformation is in exact proportion to the amount of truth we can take without running away.
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Society is like a crowd in carnival costumes with everyone fearful that others will see through his disguise.
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Don’t look for someone in whom to believe. Believe in yourself. The only authentic authority is your own original nature.
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The power of the present moment is so immense it is capable – when lived in fully – of destroying forever every past mistake and regret.
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Whenever encountering a troublesome person, do not identify him as being cruel or stupid or rude or anything else like that. Instead, see him as a frightened person.
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Self-knowledge is the great power by which we comprehend and control our lives
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One false idea is that anyone can hurt you. Events can ruin your reputation, take your money, mistreat you, revenge itself upon you, deceive, betray, abandon you, but cannot hurt you.
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Your central self is totally untouched by grief, confusion, desperation.
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The need to impress others causes half the world’s woes.
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Interpretation blocks reception while masquerading as reception. Rightness does not need interpretation; it requires simple acceptance and nothing else.
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You know what is right. Deep down, you know. The battle between your true wisdom and the counterfeit wisdom of society is what causes frustration. Refuse to compromise with what you know is right-with what is right for you.
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Examine every action and reaction. Do you act naturally or do you act because you feel compelled? If you feel compelled, stop. Compulsion is slavery. Example: Refuse to go along with the crowd.
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