Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
TUTU DESMONDIf you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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