You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
TUTU DESMONDIf you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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