Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
TUTU DESMONDIf you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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