There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
TUTU DESMONDWhen we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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