When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
TUTU DESMONDWhen we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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