A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
TUTU DESMONDWhen we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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