Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
TUTU DESMONDWhen we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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