There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
TUTU DESMONDGive a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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