Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
TUTU DESMONDReligion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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