Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
TUTU DESMONDReligion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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