I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
TUTU DESMONDWe must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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