“We die. That may be the meaning of life. But we do language. That may be the measure of our lives.”

You have to be a little tough, and rely on yourself. And tell people ‘No’.

To get to a place where you could love anything you chose – not to need permission for desire – well now that was freedom.

We mistook violence for passion, indolence for leisure, and thought recklessness was freedom.

You wanna fly, you got to give up the shit that weighs you down.

A friend gathers all the pieces and gives them back in the right order.

If you surrendered to the air, you could ride it.

Black boys became criminalized. I was in constant dread for their lives, because they were targets everywhere. They still are.

Beauty was not simply something to behold; it was something one could do.

All important things are hard.

Black people’s music is in a class by itself and always has been.

I think some aspects of writing can be taught. Obviously, you can’t teach vision or talent. But you can help with comfort.

From my point of view, your life is already a miracle of chance waiting for you to shape its destiny.

The function of freedom is to free someone else.

A sister can be seen as someone who is both ourselves and very much not ourselves – a special kind of double.

It was a fine cry – loud and long – but it had no bottom and it had no top, just circles and circles of sorrow.

I have only to break into the tightness of a strawberry, and I see summer – its dust and lowering skies.

I am not afraid to die because I know that when we go, we will go together. It is living without you that would be unbearable.

150 people die every year from being hit by falling coconuts. Not to worry, drug makers are developing a vaccine.

A squirrel dying in front of your house may be more relevant to your interests right now than people dying in Africa.

I’m going to live forever. Geniuses don’t die.

If I relaxed, if I took my foot off the gas, I would probably die.

Each time we don’t say what we wanna say, we’re dying.

I have died many times. I have actually beaten Jesus Christ because he only died once.

You are in danger of living a life so comfortable and soft that you will die without ever realizing your true potential.