The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
THOMAS MERTONWhat can we gain by sailing to the moon if we cannot cross the abyss that separates us from ourselves?
More Thomas Merton Quotes
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Prayer is not so much a way to find God as a way of resting in him who loves us, who is near to us.
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It is my belief, that we should not be too sure of having found Christ in ourselves until we have found him also in that part of humanity that is most remote from our own.
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Nothing has ever been said about God that hasn’t already been said better by the wind in the pine trees.
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We are so obsessed with doing that we have no time and no imagination left for being. As a result, men are valued not for what they are but for what they do or what they have – for their usefulness.
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We are not converted only once in our lives but many times and this endless series of conversions and inner revolutions leads to our transformation.
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To say that I am made in the image of God is to say that love is the reason for my existence, for God is love. Love is my true identity. Selflessness is my true self. Love is my true character. Love is my name.
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Weaknesses and deficiencies play a most important part in all our lives. It is because of them that we need others and others need us. We are not all weak in the same spots, and so we supplement and complete one another, each one making up in himself for the lack in another.
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Let us come alive to the splendor that is all around us and see the beauty in ordinary things.
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The whole idea of compassion is based on a keen awareness of the interdependence of all these living beings, which are all part of one another, and all involved in one another.
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When your tongue is silent, you can rest in the silence of the forest. When your imagination is silent, the forest speaks to you. It tells you of its unreality and of the Reality of God. But when your mind is silent, then the forest suddenly becomes magnificently real and blazes transparently with the Reality of God.
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Do not look for rest in any pleasure, because you were not created for pleasure: you were created for joy. And if you do not know the difference between pleasure and joy you have not yet begun to live.
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For although God is right with us and in us and out of us and all through us, we have to go on journeys to find him.
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May God prevent us from becoming “right-thinking men”-that is to say men who agree perfectly with their own police.
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Finally I am coming to the conclusion that my highest ambition is to be what I already I am.
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Instead of hating the people you think are war-makers, hate the appetites and disorder in your own soul, which are the causes of war. If you love peace, then hate injustice, hate tyranny, hate greed – but hate these things in yourself, not in another.
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