Fear narrows the little entrance of our heart. It shrinks up our capacity to love. It freezes up our power to give ourselves.
THOMAS MERTON
THOMAS MERTON
Thomas Merton on capacity
Thomas Merton76 quotes“Fear narrows the little entrance of our heart. It shrinks up our capacity to love. It freezes up our power to give ourselves.”
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Forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed?
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Wayne DyerWayne Dyer A woman should have every honorable motive to exertion which is enjoyed by man, to the full extent of her capacities and endowments.
Frederick DouglassFrederick Douglass No work or love will flourish out of guilt, fear, or hollowness of heart, just as no valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now.
Alan WattsAlan Watts The man of least capacity is the one who shows himself incapable of self-correction.
Muhammad AliMuhammad Ali There are no such things as limits to growth, because there are no limits to the human capacity for intelligence, imagination, and wonder.
Ronald ReaganRonald Reagan We had little or no emotion. We lacked the capacity to feel fear, to experience love, to enjoy the sensations of happiness and delight.The finest warriors are not only those who do not fear, but those who are without anger.
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