How can I be sincere if I am constantly changing my mind to conform with the shadow of what I think others expect of me?
THOMAS MERTONLove is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone – we find it with another.
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Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time.
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The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
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Actions are the doors and windows of being. Unless we act, we have no way of knowing what we are.
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Let us come alive to the splendor that is all around us and see the beauty in ordinary things.
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But if you want to identify me, ask me not where I live, or what I like to eat, or how I comb my hair, but ask me what I think I am living for.
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Prayer is not so much a way to find God as a way of resting in him who loves us, who is near to us.
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Be good, keep your feet dry, your eyes open, your heart at peace and your soul in the joy of Christ.
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Ours is a time of anxiety because we have willed it to be so. Our anxiety is not imposed on us by force from outside. We impose it on our world and upon one another from within ourselves.
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Our real journey in life is interior.
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We are so obsessed with doing that we have no time and no imagination left for being. As a result, men are valued not for what they are but for what they do or what they have – for their usefulness.
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How can I be sincere if I am constantly changing my mind to conform with the shadow of what I think others expect of me?
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Others can give you a name or a number, but they can never tell you who you really are. That is something you yourself can only discover from within.
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When you see God in everyone, then they see God in you.
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Love is not a matter of getting what you want. Quite the contrary. The insistence on always having what you want, on always being satisfied, on always being fulfilled, makes love impossible.
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A life is either all spiritual or not spiritual at all. No man can serve two masters. Your life is shaped by the end you live for. You are made in the image of what you desire.
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For perfect hope is achieved on the brink of despair, when instead of falling over the edge, we find ourselves walking on air.
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Gratitude takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder.
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Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real.
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People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.
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For each one of us, there is only one thing necessary: to fulfill our own destiny, according to God’s will, to be what God wants us to be.
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If you yourself are at peace, then there is at least some peace in the world.
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We cannot achieve greatness unless we lose all interest in being great.
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Weaknesses and deficiencies play a most important part in all our lives. It is because of them that we need others and others need us. We are not all weak in the same spots, and so we supplement and complete one another, each one making up in himself for the lack in another.
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We live on the brink of disaster because we do not know how to let life alone. We do not respect the living and fruitful contradictions and paradoxes of which true life is full.
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The spiritual life is first of all a life. It is not merely something to be known and studied, it is to be lived.
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You do not need to know precisely what is happening, or exactly where it is all going. What you need is to recognize the possibilities and challenges offered by the present moment, and to embrace them with courage, faith and hope.
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