Self-conquest is really self-surrender. Yet before we can surrender ourselves we must become ourselves. For no one can give up what he does not possess.
THOMAS MERTONHow can I be sincere if I am constantly changing my mind to conform with the shadow of what I think others expect of me?
More Thomas Merton Quotes
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How can I be sincere if I am constantly changing my mind to conform with the shadow of what I think others expect of me?
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The greatest need of our time is to clean out the enormous mass of mental and emotional rubbish that clutters our minds.
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Violence is not completely fatal until it ceases to disturb us.
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It is my belief, that we should not be too sure of having found Christ in ourselves until we have found him also in that part of humanity that is most remote from our own.
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Ours is a time of anxiety because we have willed it to be so. Our anxiety is not imposed on us by force from outside. We impose it on our world and upon one another from within ourselves.
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The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
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Others can give you a name or a number, but they can never tell you who you really are. That is something you yourself can only discover from within.
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Nothing has ever been said about God that hasn’t already been said better by the wind in the pine trees.
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To say that I am made in the image of God is to say that love is the reason for my existence, for God is love. Love is my true identity. Selflessness is my true self. Love is my true character. Love is my name.
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Do not be too quick to condemn the man who no longer believes in God: for it is perhaps your own coldness and avarice and mediocrity and materialism and selfishness that have chilled his faith.
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Let us come alive to the splendor that is all around us and see the beauty in ordinary things.
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The whole idea of compassion is based on a keen awareness of the interdependence of all these living beings, which are all part of one another, and all involved in one another.
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Fear narrows the little entrance of our heart. It shrinks up our capacity to love. It freezes up our power to give ourselves.
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Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time.
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Gratitude takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder.
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