We are not at peace with others because we are not at peace with ourselves, and we are not at peace with ourselves because we are not at peace with God.
THOMAS MERTONHow can I be sincere if I am constantly changing my mind to conform with the shadow of what I think others expect of me?
More Thomas Merton Quotes
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Compassion is the keen awareness of the interdependence of all things.
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Self-conquest is really self-surrender. Yet before we can surrender ourselves we must become ourselves. For no one can give up what he does not possess.
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People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.
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We cannot achieve greatness unless we lose all interest in being great.
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If you yourself are at peace, then there is at least some peace in the world.
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We are so obsessed with doing that we have no time and no imagination left for being. As a result, men are valued not for what they are but for what they do or what they have – for their usefulness.
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Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone – we find it with another.
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How can I be sincere if I am constantly changing my mind to conform with the shadow of what I think others expect of me?
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Before we can realize who we really are, we must become conscious of the fact that the person we think we are, here and now, is at best an impostor and a stranger.
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The purpose of our lives is to find the purpose of our lives.
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Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real.
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It is my belief, that we should not be too sure of having found Christ in ourselves until we have found him also in that part of humanity that is most remote from our own.
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Prayer is not so much a way to find God as a way of resting in him who loves us, who is near to us.
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Let us come alive to the splendor that is all around us and see the beauty in ordinary things.
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Love is not a matter of getting what you want. Quite the contrary. The insistence on always having what you want, on always being satisfied, on always being fulfilled, makes love impossible.
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