Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
SYDNEY J. HARRISLife is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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This is a lesson mankind has not yet learned. We identify, and stratify, and treat persons largely on the basis of their accidental (physical) characteristics, which have no deeper meaning.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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