No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
SYDNEY J. HARRISMany people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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A loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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