The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
SYDNEY J. HARRISMany people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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The loner may be respected, but he is always resented by his colleagues, for he seems to be passing a critical judgment on them, when he may be simply making a limiting statement about himself.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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