Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
SYDNEY J. HARRISWhen I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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As the horsepower in modern automobiles steadily rises, the congestion of traffic steadily lowers the average possible speed of your car. This is known as Progress.
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If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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Life is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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