We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
SYDNEY J. HARRISAnd to assert defensively at the outset that he is happily married, the father of four children and the one-time adornment of his college boxing, track and tennis teams.
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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As the horsepower in modern automobiles steadily rises, the congestion of traffic steadily lowers the average possible speed of your car. This is known as Progress.
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The art of living consists in knowing which impulses to obey and which must be made to obey.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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