People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
SYDNEY J. HARRISMiddle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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Ignorance per se is not nearly as dangerous as ignorance of ignorance.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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Never let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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