Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
SYDNEY J. HARRISReal loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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Ignorance per se is not nearly as dangerous as ignorance of ignorance.
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Almost every man looks more so in a belted trench coat.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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