Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
SYDNEY J. HARRISIf a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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Almost every man looks more so in a belted trench coat.
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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Many people know how to work hard; many others know how to play well; but the rarest talent in the world is the ability to introduce elements of playfulness into work, and to put some constructive labor into our leisure.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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