The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
SYDNEY J. HARRISIt is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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Almost every man looks more so in a belted trench coat.
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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The art of living consists in knowing which impulses to obey and which must be made to obey.
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The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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