Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
SYDNEY J. HARRISAnd most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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Between the semi-educated, who offer simplistic answers to complex questions, and the overeducated, who offer complicated answers to simple questions, it is a wonder that any questions get satisfactorily answered at all.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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