Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
SYDNEY J. HARRISAnd most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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As the horsepower in modern automobiles steadily rises, the congestion of traffic steadily lowers the average possible speed of your car. This is known as Progress.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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Ignorance per se is not nearly as dangerous as ignorance of ignorance.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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A man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
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